yet thoughtful things you could include in your card: "Thank you so much for your thoughtful gift. I really appreciated it." Or "Thank you for thinking of me this Christmas season. You helped make ...

would prefer that we send a single message, using “we” in the note with one person writing and each individual signing.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a platter, restaurant gift card or other anniversary gift) or a shared ...