婚姻专家戈特曼说过："幸福婚姻的关键，在于把注意力从伴侣身上转移到自己脚下。"当你把擦眼泪的力气用来擦口红，当你在意睡眠质量胜过水池里的碗，当你的快乐不再需要伴侣盖章认证——你会发现，那些曾让你夜不能寐的执念，不过是婚姻长河里的细小涟漪。

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